Have Any Man Falling Head Over Heels For You
Anyone who says that it's difficult to get a man to fall for you has not learned a few tricks of the trade. You have at your disposal a number of crafty methods to build intimacy with a guy even on the first date that are so clever he will never know you are worming your way into his heart until it is too late and you have moved in there and taken over. But these methods are not cheating or using mind control on them that would be frightening if you became that kind of girl. These methods are simple techniques of human communication that can help you in every aspect of life.
Women are up to ten times more receptive to body language than men, which is why some women become exasperated that the guy cannot take notice of her 'obvious' signals. But with some practice you can learn to use the kind of subtle signals that they do notice which can create a strong bond between you and get him to act just the way you want him to.
Every small act can communicate something to the guy you are with, a movement of your hands, a look from your eyes, all can turn a date from being a dud to being electrifying. The best way to start to learn is to watch others when you are out. You can start to see when people are open and in agreement, laughing and joking away, leaning in together. And when they are having an argument or one of them is bored, when they are leaning back with their arms crossed etc. If you inadvertently give the wrong signals you can come across as bored or even hostile towards your date!
If you want to communicate trust and openness then put on a small smile, lean towards him and listen as he talks. When he thinks he has your full attention he will be more open with you and appreciate your company much more. Also pay attention to your hands, are they under the table, are your arms crossed? If you put your hands on the table then you are inviting him to come to you so he knows you want to get to know him better.
As the night progresses then take every opportunity to accidentally touch him. Whether you grab hold of him to steady yourself, touch his hand as he gives you a drink or anything you can think of that does not give away that you are doing it on purpose. This gives a sense of intimacy and lowers barriers between you both. Also you can whisper in his ear, this is an incredibly intimate thing to do, yet when you are talking about something to do with the couple behind you etc then it also looks perfectly innocent. He will not be able to resist you after that!
You can also try something a little trickier, matching your body language to his. When we are in agreement with somebody, or we like or respect them, then we will subconsciously adjust out body language to match theirs. This makes the other person subconsciously feel more at ease and feel a connection with you. Make sure you do this subtly though so it doesn't look like you are copying him, wait for a while after he moves until you move into that position also, and don't copy everything, if he crosses his arms it could be a sign you said something wrong and if you cross your arms as well he will think you are closing up to him and then the date may go sour!
You can also take it a step further and emulate the way he talks. I don't mean copy his accent or he will think you are mocking him. But watch the way he talks, does he talk gently or loudly? Does he talk for long bursts and then stop or in little segments? You can then take his lead and copy his style, again he will feel a bond with you but won't know why... you will be gently creating the 'click' that happens on a great date.
These little tricks of the trade are proven methods for lowering the barriers to true romance and getting that guy to open up to you so you can get to know him. And by being a clever companion to him, you are learning to make him better for you even when he doesn't know you are doing it. It's a skill that will benefit you in every stage of your relationship with a man.
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