Meeting Women Online - Do NOT be the SCHMUCK!
Meeting women online should be one of the easiest ways to get a great date. The fact is, though, most men just slap up a ho-hum profile and hope for a response. Or - even worse - they whip out a response to HER personal ad that is about a mile beyond boring.
So let's imagine for a moment, if you will, that you are a WOMAN who has placed a personal profile up on a dating site. If she is the least bit attractive, she is going to get swarmed like a June-bug at a duck convention. She is going to get DOZENS of emails a day, from one guy after another who is saying the same boring thing to her.
She opens the first one up - and gags. "Hi there pretty lady," he says, "I am a DWM age 35 looking for a young, SWF to possibly form a LTR with. I am stable, funny, charming and romantic." Next she reads, "Wow you are HOT! I have a degree in 'pleasure-ocity' and would loooove to educate you, baby!" DELETE!!
Ok - do you get the point here? After reading all these emails, they ALL start to sound the same - and FAST. She may as well put a blindfold on and play "Pin my tail on the loser". You have got to GRAB and GO here. Grab her attention, and then GO offline.
So how exactly do you get her attention? Humor is a fantastic way to get a woman's attention. Say something to her in your first email that would make her smack you stupid if she was standing beside you. Ask her for her REAL photo because you know her profile picture was photo-shopped. Ask her if she is one of those crazy women who puts their dog in their purse. Something original!
Now, before you go out and start signing up for twenty different email accounts and 30 different online dating sites, take in some sage advice. (And by the way - to keep yourself from looking like a troller - GET the different email accounts. If you are on more than one site - chances are - so is she!)
When you are responding to her profile - please be sure to respond directly to something she said in her post. Do not send out the same letter to 30 women. READ her profile and bust on something she said in it.
Next, keep on top of the ads! There are a LOT of people using online dating forums. Be one of the first people to grab her and then - take her OFFLINE. Got that? Be the first in line, and then get her OFF the website as soon as possible and into a real world interaction with you. Call her, meet her for coffee, take her to lunch - whatever it takes to get you implanted into her life AS YOU ARE.
One more key piece of dating advice - when you arrange for your first meeting - she is GOING to be nervous. Her friends are telling her "You are meeting someone you met ONLINE??" So ease her fears. Meet for coffee at Starbucks in the middle of the day or for lunch somewhere. That will be much more "secure" feeling to her than a dinner date or a club.
So remember - online dating services are a GREAT place to meet women, and meeting women online can be a blast if you know how to do it right. So fire up your fingers and get to work. Remember - you CAN get the girl!
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