What Natural and Lasting Attraction Really Means to YOU
Have you ever been dating a man for a while and things are going GREAT - then suddenly they take a turn for the worse and you end up losing him even though you tried your hardest to keep him? This happens to MANY women - and the strange things is - when a man starts withdrawing, we all react the same way using one of (or several) behaviors I have figured out.
The first behavior is to try to become his "buddy", staying close to him and trying to help him with his problems. You do this because you think he will soon recognize what a wonderful relationship you have.
Or, you may try to make him jealous by telling him you are dating other people, even if you are not. You may also just go on a date with a guy not because you like him, but in order to the one you love to notice, be jealous and want you back.
Pretending that being in a casual relationship is fine is another tactic women take to try to bring him back. You continue to have sex with him, and welcome him when he does come by, and you never let him see you cry. You think that this will make him realize just how great you are!
You could also give him an ultimatum - guilt trip him or get angry with him and tell him to man up and get into the relationship. You are thinking that he will soon realize just how happy and content he really is and then happily ever after will follow.
Lastly - you may try to compliment him, baby him and serve him in any way you can think of - going way out of your way to do things for him - again, in hopes that he will see how he cannot live without you.
But guess what? These things do NOT work with men! We all DO them, but they don't work. It makes sense to us, as women, that logically, they would work. But the fact is, inside the mind of a man - they only drive him away.
So what the heck WILL work? The thing is - there IS NO INSTANT FIX. There are no magic words to say to him that will make him, stay. There is no formula, no incantation, etc. What you need to do is to START doing what it is that makes a man FEEL ATTRACTED and MORE INTERESTED in you.
In order to keep your relationship healthy, active and interested, you need to develop an understanding of what creates natural and lasting attraction. A barrier that women face, though, to understanding this is their own personal mindset.
But if you can learn to understand how your mindset affects how you interpret and respond to a man...you will soon get the kind of awareness that will help you interpret on an individual basis what will work for your situation and what will not.
Creating natural and lasting attraction will help boost your relationship to new levels - levels of security, comfort and amazing connections that will last for a lifetime. Do yourself a favor and LEARN what triggers natural attraction and what YOU can do today to maintain that.
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